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GROWTH

In life, growth is unstoppable, and one thing we need to understand is that growth comes with pain, love, endurance, happiness, depression, guilt and so many other experiences. At times we choose and come up with the kind of growth we want in life, the kind of growth we hope for, and the kind of growth that suits the society. Life is so unpredictable that our expectations and investments can collapse right in front of us; and there comes the hard times we try to fight for, fight with, and live with during this moments of our lives. Sometimes life becomes so sweet full of joy, beautiful memories and a smooth flow of results gotten from our hard work. But then we can't always blame, and emotionally traumatize our selves for the hard times that comes with life, because it is definitely part of growth, and also teaches us that life isn't always rosy, we need to learn how to deal with these times in life. One's journey is about experience, entertainment, research, learning

LIVING THROUGH EXPECTATIONS

Young and naive, In that place where we were but thought of growth and the future, Not seeing through the odds in those exciting but narrow dreams of ours, We possibly saw fantasies, independence, freedom and unrealistic standards, Going through the idea of the daily thirst to live on our own terms, We were just children, Young and naive, The ones inquisitively blinded on what we think we could be up there, But reality has its own games, right? The games that play beyond the struggle for independence, I mean, we just wanted to see life without primary guardians, Young and naive, We wanted to be free, Grown now, in our early stage of adulthood, But our thoughts seem to completely have a different turn, Because life goes beyond the thought of childhood, Growing and expecting, We prioritize goals, growth, stability and happiness, Growing and expecting, Life is beautiful, but we must make and see this beauty. A piece of my poetry.

THIS FEELING CALLED LOVE

On a cool eve with leaves rustling about the tune of the wind, Sandra sat sobbing bitterly because her heart has been broken for the third time, and doesn't know what else to do. Her best friend Chioma met her and was desperate to know the cause of her tears. However, Sandra was too unsettled to discuss things with her at the moment and Chioma, having much time to spare her friend, decided to wait and kept on questioning her concerning her plight. Sandra eventually spoke up, and said, “Chioma I am tired; I feel like the world is turning itself on me. Just take a look at me; just look at me: three different men I loved and felt they loved me also are gone – they left me. I haven't settled with a man for a whole year and believe he is Mr Right. Chioma understanding the situation, felt sorry for her. She said, “one thing we both don't try to understand is that relationships are of different levels; that is why before a lady goes into a relationship I advice her to analyze th

THESE MEN IN OUR SOCIETY

Hearing of the name herds men in our dear country Nigeria is so frightening and worrisome. Why is this so?. It is no longer news of the deadly and cold blooded humans they are. Firstly, who do we regards to as herds men? Herdsmen are people who rears livestock, especially cows and sheep. Through this definition, the rearing of livestock such as cows are not suppose to cause any harm than good in our society today. However, it is the other way round whereby innocent citizens are been killed by this people either through physical misunderstanding or mistakes. In today's thinking, people classify the rearer as the owner, this is not true. Why do I say so? You see an herdsman with over 50-100 cows and still move under the sun directing them. A person who should have that amount of cows is one who is said to be financially stable due to the cost of those cows, therefore hiring herdsmen to work for them, giving them strict and mean instructions on those who tries to manipulate them or

THE UNEXPECTED ENCOUNTER

This feeling, this feeling Kept me thinking, kept wondering Even when I don't want to What is this? LOVE An experience that probably don't need an explanation It's funny how I get to love someone I did not notice at first sight Love, like I do hear about before now Never moved me, because I have not witnessed what it meant Crushs, yes, I have had But the feelings are totally different I find it heard to keep thinking of a future without you Every aspect of things that relates to the family, I think about you How could this be? Is it part of God's creation in us? Yes, it has to be An experience that is killing (personifiying) Through various thoughts that can't be controlled And also eventually leading to insomnia This feelings, this feelings I check for you numerous times online Yet still finds it difficult to say hi Although sometimes I take that courage So hard it is to control So disastrous if you can't be mine So heart breaking, if

LOVE AND LIFE

  The outcome of love in our recent generation has been twisted into another look, so many can to some extent surrender their life for love, and some can't because of self love too. Love has different meanings and can be narrowed into various perspectives. There's is the love that goes between God and man, family members, siblings and also the love between a man a woman. Going into the love between a man and a woman, can it be said that love is life, love guarantees life, life can be laid down for love, and is love really what we see it as? Also using the Ws and H of love......... what is love, why love, where does it come from, when do you love, and how is love created ? Love is simply a strong feeling and affection towards your opposite sex, when one is lovingly attracted to a person his or her mood and attitude changes towards that person. When you chat, speak and even thinking of the future when you are with your family, such person is always remembered, to some extent, gen

SOCIETY WITHOUT LAWS

  A society simply refers to the aggregate of people living together in a more or less ordered community. It is also an organization or club formed for a particular purpose or activity. However society is not just limited to this definitions, has it can be described in various ways. When we say a "society without law" what does it mean?. Let's first of all look at the definition of law. Law can be defined as the system of rules which a particular country or community recognizes as regulating the actions of its members and which it may enforce by the imposition of penalties.    Society is a place that contains rules and regulations either by governments or higher authorities of people living in that geographical area.  A society without law is like an unorganized or disorderliness in a society, this is so in the sense that, laws keep citizens of a particular society on the good run, because when people have the freedom to do and act on whatever they want there would be cri